Things have been good lately... D has been working at a job that finally pays decent.  However, today he is telling me that he wants to go elsewhere because he thinks that the grass is greener.  I want stability.  I don't need him to make tons of money. 

He is so convinced that he is right about leaving that he doesn't listen.  My guess is that he has not listened in the past & this really worries me, because it shows he hasn't grown... And everyone has to grow.

When I try to caution him, he takes it as if I am not being supportive.. this of course aggravates the hell out of me!  That said, I do want to be supportive - but not supportive of stupid decisions...

We are a we.  Him making a decision like this by himself is not about "we", it is about "he".

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

This past weekend, D and I went to an amusement park and to a Cleopatra exhibit.  Since it is a ways from our home, we stayed over night. 

The weekend was a lot of fun.  We rode rides together, shared a funnel cake & bought those goofey pictures they sell - where we looked like we were terrified (and we were!).  We even went to Costco & got a membership.  I can't remember the last time we had so much fun.

So last night, I was looking for a diary to write down my thoughts and I found an old one - fro 2008.  It had entries about D and T.  I had fun reading through the old entries... I thought back then that D was a "Mr. Right Now".  What a difference 3 years makes!

Mr. Right Now has changed into Mr. Right...who knew...:-)  Polly Anna knew...She's so smart.