Things have been good lately... D has been working at a job that finally pays decent.  However, today he is telling me that he wants to go elsewhere because he thinks that the grass is greener.  I want stability.  I don't need him to make tons of money. 

He is so convinced that he is right about leaving that he doesn't listen.  My guess is that he has not listened in the past & this really worries me, because it shows he hasn't grown... And everyone has to grow.

When I try to caution him, he takes it as if I am not being supportive.. this of course aggravates the hell out of me!  That said, I do want to be supportive - but not supportive of stupid decisions...

We are a we.  Him making a decision like this by himself is not about "we", it is about "he".

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr